Do you believe in the term “Soul Mate”? That being someone who was meant for you. Maybe even created just for you. Surely there would be no one else that could compare in your eyes or there’s if they’re you’re soul mate.
I don’t know if that is real. What I do know is that ETERNAL love is real and hard to find. Love is being completely self-less. You change and evolve for the better. Not just for your other half but for yourself too. Loving the right person means that they help you become a better person.
Sometimes people fall in love with people that make them worse, expose them to darker sides of themselves that they didn’t know existed. That’s the most dangerous form of love. You start losing yourself, even family and friends don’t recognize you anymore. Maybe you don’t recognize you either.
Eternal love can be good and bad depending on the people involved and what they do together. If your love for some consumes you, you think of that person all day and would do anything for them, then congratulations your love for them may be eternal. That means that nothing could stop you from loving them. That can be good and bad. If you’re with a crappy person you may HAVE to leave them. Sure you’ll always love them but they aren’t what’s best for you.
On the brighter side, eternal love that is reciprocated is the best of all. You do what is best for them and they return the favor. You just click, it is effortless and easy to be yourself around them and to find yourself in a good mood.
They are your best friend and you value everything that they bring to the table. You see their uniqueness and value everything that is them. Above all you forgive each other. No relationship or love can last without forgiveness. In fact everyone you know has or will do something wrong to you at some point, you just need to figure out who is WORTH it.
That’s eternal love. Finding someone who is absolutely worth it.